RECOGNIZING  AND DEALING WITH TOXIC PEOPLE


ARE WE SURROUNDED WITH PEOPLE WHO LET US FEEL DOWN? DO THEY CRITICISE US? THAT NEGATIVELY AFFECTS US AND OUR LIFE? 

Our Life is surrounded with numerous things. These things have affected our life drastically. Some have a positive impact and others have a negative impact. Some aspects are known to us and others are not known to us.

People's Personality is made with many aspects.  These aspects have great relevance in our life. For instance, Our surroundings and company affect us. 

Being with people who negate us and degrades us can have a serious impact on our life. That can kill us from the inside. It's really important to know regarding the intention of the people with whom we spend our time.

There are a variety of people in our lives and where we will decide 3 kinds of people which are negative people, tonic people, and toxic people. These are part of our entire life. Let's discuss these people.

NEGATIVE PEOPLE- NEGATIVE PEOPLE ARE THE ONES WHO ARE SUFFERING FROM SELF ISSUES. FROM INSTANCE, THEY HAVE NEGATIVE RELATION WITH THEMSELVES.

TONIC PEOPLE- TONIC PEOPLE ARE THOSE POSITIVE PEOPLE WHO SPREAD HAPPINESS. THEY CREATE POSITIVELY WHERE THEY GO.

TOXIC PEOPLE-  TOXIC PEOPLE ARE ONES  WHO PLAY WITH THE FEELINGS OF OTHERS. JUST BECAUSE OF THESE OWN INSECURITY, JEALOUSY AND MANY MORE.

JUST RECOGNIZE AND EVALUATE THE PEOPLE WITH WHOM WE SHARE OUR PRECIOUS TIME.

LET'S START THE MAIN CONCEPT REGARDING THE RECOGNIZATION OF THE PRESENCE OF PEOPLE IN  OUR LIFE.

REMEMBER, DON'T GET CONFUSED BETWEEN TOXIC PEOPLE AND NEGATIVE PEOPLE.

NEGATIVE PEOPLE ARE THE ONES WHO HAVE THEIR PERSONAL ISSUES WITH THEM. THE ONES WHO ALWAYS LOOK FORWARD THEIR LIFE WITH NEGATIVE OUTLOOK. THEY ARE VICTIMS OF THEMSELVES. THEY CAN'T DESTROY OUR LIFE. ON THE OTHER SIDE, TOXIC PEOPLE HAVE THE HABIT TO DESTROY OUR LIFE USING SMALL TRICKS AND PLAY WITH OUR MINDS.
JUST BE ALERT, MY BUDDIES.

Sharing interesting facts which can help us to identify the people and their intentions.
 
INTENTION- Intention is an interesting concept in our life. The intention seems important to us. Staying with people all the time makes us feel that we should consider what kind of intention they have. It defines what kind of relationship they have with us. Being aware of these people and their intention is a keen concept these days.

NEVER BELIEVE ANYONE'S SAYINGS AND JUST OBSERVE ACTIONS. 

SITUATION- AFTER FEW HOURS, WE HAVE EXAM IN EXAMINATION HALL. SOMEONE SAID,'' THIS TIME, LEVEL OF OUR EXAM WILL BE HIGHER THAN BEFORE.''
THEY KNOW, WE ARE IN STRESS. STILL, THEY SAY THIS STATEMENT JUST BECAUSE TO LOWER OUR SELF-CONFIDENCE. 

OUR PAST WITH THEM- Our past with them can help us to recognize these people. There may be incidents that make us identify our toxic relationship with them.

For instance, any incident in our childhood, property issues, differences with them because of hidden jealousy feelings.

These people have existence in our lives. We can't spoil our life just because of them. In fact, we can't stop away from these entities, we can do one thing that we should know how to deal with these people.

HOW TO DEAL WITH TOXIC PEOPLE:-

1. PROACTIVE- Being aware of who is toxic in our lives, is half battle done. Just make ourselves prepare before meeting these entities. 
Just make ourselves prepare that they are going to do something in order to degrade us and spoil our inner peace. We are not doing to make us do that.

2. KEEP THEM IN SUSPENSE- These entities are the ones who are interested to know what is happening in our life. Just keep them in suspense. Suspense is the best answer for them. Don't say much. 

3. SILENCE - Silence is the best weapon that can be used for them. My buddies, just be loyal to ourselves. Our argument with them can destroy our inner peace. Be wise to ourselves. If they did something and we will react to that. That one act can be dangerous and have a negative impact on our mental health. If we remain silent and don't respond much. That means we have not done anything that they want us to do. We are successful in handling the situation. 

4. SMILE- Smile is an interesting weapon that can be used for both sides. Keep Smiling in front of these entities. A smile is good for health and it makes us feel better. In fact, this smile can be considered the best trick to deal with these entities. Our smiles can do what they don't want us to do. Smiles can take their inner peace and give us inner peace.

5. DON'T DO WHAT THEY WANT US TO DO- As we identify these entities, Never do that act that they want us to do and they will not win in their mission. This is the main task that we are supposed to do. 

All these tricks will not waste our time and these tricks will be the best solution to these toxic people.

Please plan your different strategies for different toxic people according to their toxins.

ALTERNATIVE OPTION- Have tonic people all around can make a huge difference in our life especially when we are in the lowest days of life. 

REMEMBER, WHEN WE ARE IN THE LOWEST DAYS OF OUR LIFE, JUST STAY AWAY FROM THESE ENTITIES.


QUOTE OF THE DAY

DON'T RESPOND MUCH TO THESE PEOPLE 
INSTEAD, KEEP SMILING AND DON'T WASTE OUR TIME ARGUING WITH THESE PEOPLE. BEST SOLUTIONS FOR THIS.

JUST SEE THE ABOVE PICTURE AND THINK ABOUT IT, MY BUDDIES.

SEE YOU IN ANOTHER BLOG.
TILL THEN TAKE CARE, MY BUDDIES.
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